Conversation

Some people have problems in communicating with others. This is quite serious because communicating is essential in having friends and people around you. For those that don`t know exactly how to keep a conversation going or don`t know what to talk about, here are some tips. For example, starting with small talk is perfect. You can in this way introduce yourself, if you two don`t know each other, and start talking. Another tip is to always ask open ended questions. These questions need a complex answer and not a yes or no one and in this way you can keep the conversation going.
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People talk about many things, everything can turn into a conversation topic. Here is a list of things to talk about if you ever feel that you can`t find a good subject : the weather, is a good and simple topic. Talking for a few minutes about the weather, breaks the uncomfortable silence and you can relate to other subjects. Movies, music, travels, family, work, school, education, politics, religion, pets, food, literature, art, fun activities, hobbies, dreams etc are all god topics of conversation.

Making a list of things to talk about, is good especially if you are a more shy person that gets easily intimidated. In order to have a pleasant conversation , one should be relaxed and outgoing. When talking, looking interested and paying attention is essential. There are a few rules when having a conversation, and usually those people that have conversation skills know them. People usually talk about what they have heard, what happens around the world, comment upon the latest news, talk about day to day problems, complain about their work, about money, about high prices, talk about technology, cars, holidays, children and so on.

The list of things to talk about, differs from women to men. Women would rather talk about fashion, clothes, bags, designers, shopping, couple problems, give one another advices, and men most of the times talk about sport, sex and money. At a business gathering, everyone talks about, money and business, clients and merchandise and when friends get together the topics come randomly, and are usually fun things that entertains them. Between friends everything is allowed , that`s why, the most funny and interesting conversations are with friends.

In the end, making a list of things to talk about can be quite helpful. In order to have something to say, one should stay current with the latest news. Reading a paper, or watching a new movie, are two ways in which you can easily bring something new into the conversation. To conclude, anything can be a subject of conversation, just try to pick the topics you think the other person will enjoy too. We all have different tastes and opinions, conceptions and so on, so, it`s best to approach a more common and easy subject, with a person you barely know.

The „war” that goes on between girls and guys is usually seen through mean lines and uninspired moments. Girls say about boy that they don`t have any feelings, that they brag in vain, they think they are the best, when they don`t even know how to please a lady and so on. And boys say about girls that they are too stressful, too clingy, very critical, spend a lot of money on silly things, have a big mouth, very sensitive and needy. Usually girls ask stupid questions but only out of the will to have a conversation.
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Boys usually like girls that are not so smart. A girl that has money, is beautiful and very smart, intimidates them a little bit. So, coming back to our problem, there are many stupid questions to ask a guy. For example one of the most common stupid questions is : „ what are you thinking about?”. Even if the boy was thinking about something, if it bother her to know then he won`t tell her so, this question is irrelevant. Sometimes girls ask this question when the guy is driving. He answers „ i`m driving not thinking” but she still insists. This is a very stressful question that will always remain on the top of the most stupid question to ask a guy.

Here are some other stupid questions to ask a guy : do I look fat? If you could date one of my friends who would it be? This question doesn`t have a good answer and so what should a guy say? If he gives the name of a friend, she says he likes that girl, if he says „ no one” this means her girlfriends are ugly. The way the mind of a girl works is a mystery. Do you think she`s pretty? Is another very stupid question, because if a beautiful girl walks by you, you can`t look down and you can`t pretend she doesn`t exists. The right answer if she`s really pretty is yes, because if you say no , then this is a lie. The question : Is more important than me? is a little bit retorical, and usually asked in rough times. Other questions are : what are you doing? Asked when you are at work. Where are you ? and you are at home.

As a conclusion, there are plenty of stupid questions to ask a guy. Some people ask obvious stupid questions like : the woman you are marrying is she good? When you are at the movies and you run into some old acquaintances and they ask, so what are you doing here? when you get woken up in the middle of the night by a phone call and the other person says „ sorry were you sleeping? All these are obvious stupid questions that , without even noticing we ourselves ask sometimes, come naturally sometimes. In the end, there can be 101 stupid questions to ask a guy, the important thing is to try to avoid asking annoying questions because at one point he will stop answering you. If you always ask if he is cheating on you, after a while he will eventually cheat.

There are so many things a couple can talk about, that is almost silly to try to find questions to ask your boyfriend, or topics of conversation to approach. Usually a guy and a girl can find something they have in common and talk about that. The most common subjects that help keeping a conversation going are : family, work, school, money, food, pets, hobbies, music, movies etc. A discussion between a guy and a girl , is more of a flirt . Everything is said in a flirty way, everything has a sexual dimension and the tension is very high.
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There are a lot of questions a girl could ask a guy. Here are 40 Questions to Ask a Guy: what is your favorite song? What is your favorite movie? What kind of music do you listen to? do you like pets? What`s your family like? what is your best memory from childhood? What is your opinion about cheating? How many relationships have you had till now? Have you ever really loved a woman? Do you believe in God? Do you think that spells and magic exist? Have you ever had a deja vu? What is your favorite food? Do you smoke? Drink? Do you know how to drive? What`s the most scary thing in your opinion? what would make you give it all up? Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

These are a few of the many questions a girl could ask a boy. There are intimate questions, personal questions, knowledge questions, funny questions, interesting ones and so on. Here are some other Questions to Ask a Guy: have you ever had a fantasy with me? do you like it more rough? Do you talk while doing it? what color has your underwear? What do you like to do to a girl? if you won a million dollars what would you do? if you had to pick one girl from your group to go with on a deserted island, who would you pick? Do you please yourself often? How many porn magazines do you buy in a week? Have you ever had a fantasy with a boy? Have you ever smoked weed? Do you think breaking the rules is ok? What makes you feel happy? What do you do when you get angry?

As a conclusion, there are many questions a girl could ask a guy. Girls split the hair in four, think and over think a situation, their imagination runs wild and so they have question material all the time. They also ask stupid and unnecessary questions such as: what are you thinking about? do you think she is pretty? Do I look fat? All these questions are very annoying especially for a boy that just doesn`t care. Other stupid questions can be for example: when calling late in the night, you ask „where you sleeping? „. In the end, asking questions is not bad, it`s actually more easy and very efficient.

There are many questions that go through our head when we are with someone. Some ideas should be kept secret others are good to ask because they reveal some important traits of the other person. In the beginning of any relationship the conversations are informative so that you can both get to know each other. For example the usual topics of conversation are : family, friends, hobbies, likes , dislikes, food, sports, work, school, dreams, traveling, pets etc. There are a lot of topics you can approach to find out more things about the other person. When the relationship becomes more serious, the topics change. Now because you have found everything you wanted to know, the subjects of conversation change to daily routine. But a certain issue becomes more and more appealing and that is sex.
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There are a lot of questions one thinks of asking his partner. Sex is a universal tabu subject. Back in the old days, sex was considered a bad thing and as a consequence nobody talked about it. Nowadays, the most common subject in groups of friends is sex. People have become more open minded, they experiment lots of new things, there are plenty of porn movies and so people don`t lack of ideas and imagination. Girls are very curious to find out what their boyfriend has done before meeting them. For example they ask questions like : how many women did you had before me?

Here are 21 questions to ask a guy : have you ever had sex with more women at once? What`s your favorite position? What`s your most desired fantasy? Have you ever had anal sex? Have you ever done it in a public place? Have you ever had problems when having sex? Do you think foreplay is important or not? What do you think about sex toys? Have you ever tried one? what would you think if your girlfriend cheated on you with a girl? do you read porn magazines? What`s your favorite condom brand? Do you like giving oral sex? Who excites you more a blond or a brunette? Are you self conscious about size? Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? do you give yourself pleasure daily? What is your opinion on sexual preferences? Can a night stand be considered cheating? Have you ever been dominated by a woman? Do you like it more rough or slow?

As a conclusion there are many questions a girl can ask a guy. Starting from intimate questions and ending with interesting questions related to politics or art. Girls are more curious by nature. Men usually don`t like to talk about themselves very much so, being asked is the only way they will reveal some details. In the end, what matters is to be pleased with the answer. Asking questions is done with a purpose so, let`s hope the guy knows what to answer.Guys and girls have different opinions about sex. So the sex discussion between a guy and a girl can turn out to be very entertaining.

Wouldn`t you like to talk to a guy about anything? Since forever there has been a curiosity between men and women. Women want to know what guys are thinking of and guys want to understand women moods and problems. If you have a guy in front of you what would you ask him? Here are 21 questions to ask a guy : 1 why do you cheat? 2. why do you lie? 3 why do you lie on stupid minor things? 4 why you guys never tell what you think? 5 why you never want to say I love you? 6 why are you so jealous? 7 Why do you always want to hold the power? 8 why do you always need to have sex? 9 Why do you look after other girls if your girlfriend is beautiful? 10 Why do you never learn from your mistakes? These are the most important questions a woman in general would ask.
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These are all general questions. If the guy is your boyfriend then the questions change a little bit. For example a girl could ask her boyfriend: do you love me? Do you miss me during the day? you like other girls? Do you think of me as your possible wife? Have you ever lied to me? have you ever cheated? Do you like spending time with me? Why didn`t you answer my calls the other day? where do you see yourself in 5 years? what things you don`t like about me? What should I change? What things you thing are wrong at you? Girls are usually more doubtful, they are suspicious, they don`t trust the man besides them, not because he has done something wrong, but just because he is a man.

The most important 21 questions to ask a guy, are all related to love and cheating. Women need to know and are always wondering, why men do such stupid things. Women are smarter in this area, they don`t miss a things and it`s rather hard to cheat. Women have a sixth sense, called intuition, that is usually right. If we stop and think for a while, we could come up with 21 questions to ask a guy but if we all know the truth then where`s the fun?

As a conclusion, sometimes women don`t need to know everything. There are some situations that are best to be kept secret. Everyone has secrets! Women shouldn`t be so worried and stressed out about these things. In the end, the truth will come out. Men are also curious to know why women behave so badly and nervous sometimes, why they tend to be so nagging and why they always suspect something is wrong. Men come from Mars women come from Venus, we are totally different, and in the same time this is what is so attractive.

Sex is practically the only thing guys think of. Women are less preoccupied about sex, but it`s still a priority in their lives. When growing up to be a little older than just a teenager, sex and relationships start to make sense. Sex becomes, something more than just experimenting, and relationships transform into love and future plans. When you become more close to a guy, you can ask more intimate questions, personal ones, because these questions are made to bring you more closer together. It`s very important to know as many things about the other person as possible. Everyone has secrets, but lets not exaggerate. Too many secrets is not ok.
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Besides just talking, playing games like 20 questions, or truth or dare can be quite entertaining, and people have to fess up. Some questions can be a little more dirty , but if you are between friends, or if you are with your boyfriend then it`s nothing wrong with asking dirty questions. Here are 21 Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy : what`s your favorite position? What color is your underwear? Do you have any experience with unbuttoning a bra? How naughty can you be? what`s your most desired fantasy? Do you talk while doing it? do you like it more rough or are you the romantic type? What do you think about foreplay? What body part when touched, turns you on? have you ever had sex in public places? What do you like to do to a woman? When do you like to have sex? have you ever tried playing with sex toys? Would you want to? do you please yourself often? Have you ever fantasized about me?

There are many Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy, but it`s important to have courage to ask them. It`s quite intimidating, for you and for the one that answers. Talking about your inner thoughts , fantasies, sex experiences can be very awkward. But once you have got the hang of it, and you have made yourself comfortable, everything will come naturally. Many people consider sex and dirty things, a tabu subject. It`s a shame to talk about these things they say. But, our urges, our desires are the same at everyone and so, why not talk about them.

As a conclusion, there are many dirty questions a girl can ask a guy. Guys are more perverse and more dirty in thinking than girls. Girls are more gentle, delicate, they don`t want to experiment as guys do. Dirty questions are related to sex, positions, penis, different sounds, body movements etc. Dirty can be also the way you drink your tea or smoke a cigarette. Every gesture has a dirty part. There are also a lot of people that have dirty fantasies, and sexual preferences. They like being beaten up, wiped, treated as babies, playing roles in bed and so on.

When getting more acquainted with someone, you can permit yourself to be more indiscreet and ask some personal questions. Intimacy and discretion is everything in a relationship. What happens between a couple, should stay only between them. Being young allows you to make some mistakes. For example teenagers tend to kiss and tell , they look for a close friend and for affection in anyone who wants to hear their problems. When talking to a guy it`s essential to always set some limits. It`s ok to ask questions but it`s very important to know how to ask . For example always say something about you and then ask the other person. This way, the guy can feel more comfortable and can open up. Guys usually don`t talk about what they think, about emotions and so they need a little push from behind.
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Here are 20 Very Personal Questions to Ask a Guy you are talking to: what do you think when you look at me? have you ever had sex with someone you didn`t know? Have you ever cheated on your girlfriend? How many girls have you loved until now? Have you ever been in an embarrassing situation with a girl? how does your fantasy girl look like? do you have sexual fantasies often? Have you ever had one with me? what is your favorite memory from childhood? What`s your favorite food cooked by your mother? Have you ever made sex in public places? Have you ever cried for a girl? do you think of me as just your friend? Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

Asking questions allows you and makes easier the whole getting to know process. Asking questions keeps the conversation going, especially if there are open ended questions, meaning with a more complex answer. Personal questions have to be asked at the righ moment. Personal means intimate, private and so, it`s rather hard to open up this way to someone. Sharing personal details to someone, creates a more deep connection between you two. Questions like : have you ever been heart broken? Do you like to talk while you have sex? can be quite awkward to answer, but nowadays , people have started to be more outgoing, and sex and sexual fantasies are not a hush hush subject anymore.

As a conclusion, if you want to ask your boyfriend some personal questions and you don`t know how, you could either start a game, 20 Very Personal Questions to Ask a Guy, or to ask each other and , you can in this way make your move. If he doesn`t want to do this, then try talking, and then whenever you feel ready, pop up a question. In the end, personal questions are the hardest ones to ask and to answer. Many people just try to avoid personal topics, and talk about general stuff. Personal can in the same time be painful for some people that have problems and so, it can be a sensitive subject.

A common game played among teenagers is truth or dare. You have to choose either to answer the truth to a question or to accept a dare if you don`t wanna talk about intimate details. This game is great because it gives the opportunity to  discover new things about your friends. Choosing truth means you have to be totally honest in answering any question. There are many Game Questions to Ask a Guy in order to make him confess . Here are some questions you could ask: if you were to go on a trip with another person who would you choose to take along? Do you like a certain girl in the group? If you won a million dollars with who are you going to spend it? tell me three true things about your character; what`s the number of your girlfriends? Have you ever cheated?
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A conversation between friends, is much more relaxed and interesting than one with someone you don`t know. A conversation between a guy and a girl is more like a flirting game. If the two like each other, then you will most probably feel the tension between them. In order to get to know each other better, they can ask questions related to their lives. For example the best conversation topics are : work, school, family, day to day life, food, pets, likes , dislikes, travels etc. After a while the conversations become more deeper, more intimate and the questions are more full of double meanings. In order to find more things in a short time, people can pay the questions game. Each one asks a question.

20 Questions, Game Questions to Ask a Guy can be easily played if you know how to ask the questions. You can ask things like : how far will go with someone? Who was your first make out? Who did you first kiss? How do you see the perfect girl? tell me one of your secrets;  what do you understand by sex? Have you ever been in an embarrassing situation with a girl? tell me one of your sexual fantasies; what do you dream of? have you ever had a fantasy with another guy? Have you ever had a fantasy with me? have you ever been skinny dipping? what do you think of sex at first date? These questions can be a little bit intimidating, and sometimes you just don`t want to answer them.

In the end, what really matters is giving the answers she likes to hear. If you are a boy and you are questioned by a girl, then try to stay relax, natural, funny etc. Guys don`t really like to talk about their private life, they usually don`t give details and they are harder to get to know. But, asking questions is not a bad idea. In this way guys are obliged in some way to answer and you can tell by it`s answer if it`s true or not.