Sometimes, after a longer time of relationship, you might find yourself at the point where you really want to know certain kind of thing about your partner, things that you haven’t talked about yet.  We must admit that men don’t really like to talk, not to mention to talk about their private issues or thoughts.

That is why, if want to ask him personal questions, be very aware of what you are doing. Sometimes, even when you find a question harmless, they might get offended. It’s very dangerous to ask embarrassing questions a guy. This of course, if you still want him with you because once you put him in an uncomfortable situation, he might choose the easy way of getting up and run.

So first, you should find the perfect moment when to ask him the imperfect, embarrassing question. It might do well to even warn him about what you are going to say, and ask him if he is willing to answer some questions that he might find odd, but you find them quite important. However, you should always leave these questions for after at least one year of relationship.

Until your relationship is new, under no circumstances should you ask your boyfriend if he wants to get married. The last thing in a young boy’s mind is to get married. Most probably you’ll only scare him away, because he will assume you are already planning to marry him. Nothing good will come out of this question; you will only get an awkward silence, and probably make things worse. Don’t even joke about this matter. Many guys don’t know about jokes when it comes to marriage.

Another question you should safe for later is, if does he want to have children. Deciding to have a child with a certain person is a great deal of love and trust. Don’t assume that just because he likes you, he already wants to have babies with you. They might not say it, but men always look for the good mother in their girlfriends or wives. So you should spend together a certain period of time, before you can convince him that you are the right person to bring up his kids. Again, asking him about children will make him want to run away, or he would feel that you want to tie him down.

It’s quite important, both for you and your partner, to know your place by his side. Don’t ever compare yourself with others, or ex girlfriends because there are quite good chances that you won’t get an honest answer. Don’t ever ask him is you are better than some other person.

Everyone is different, and when it comes to love somebody, you can always love in different ways, and love different things about that person. So it’s quite possible that he might not be able to answer you. Instead, you will appear as an insecure girlfriend, who isn’t sure of her charms and personality and feel inferior to his ex girlfriends. No men like a person like this. So always  think twice before you ask a question, and be sure the answer is really going to help you and not make things worst.