With all the teen hypes around and all the flourishing market of teen culture and especially media products there’s really no difficulty in for teens to interact with each other. But can you also truly relate to one another? Adolescence is a pretty uncomfortable time in many ways because we undergo many changes and most of them are very visible. We have to start being more responsible and our presence is felt more and more as that of somebody who should have something to say. We are subjected to constant evaluation and we experience new feelings and pressures.

Can we then just go out and have conversations about movies, bands and collections items? Yes we can. Movies, music, books and hobbies are the best way to relate to others. When you like a book that says something about you and if somebody else likes the same book that right there can be the start of  beautiful question. When your young you don’t really feel it’s necessary to talk about your feelings and emotions about the world but you can attach these emotions to things you like around you. Strong character teens will most likely take up a sport like rock climbing and become friends with other rock climbers. Dancers will find it easier to communicate between themselves being that they are sensitive and artful. All you hobbies and interests are the best conversation starters with other teens.

For example, if somebody says he likes the beat generation than you know without having to go into detail that you are talking to an person enthusiastic about life and a good choice to take on a road trip with you.

But if you want to start a conversation with somebody who seems very different you can try out more of your interests or even become interested in their own passions. Adolescence is a time for learning and sharing experiences. It is also full of awkward moments and humiliating experiences but that is just part of the deal of growing up.

Other good conversation starters are courses and teachers. Once again few things can unite people and mainly teen than a common enemy. When we are in our teens we can be pretty cruel and at times forget that the others are going through mostly the same things as us. Groups form, teens take on different roles and soon enough we can see an hierarchy forming and topics, unspoken rules for discussion and interaction become just part of the system.

When groups form the best thing is to keep your independence and don’t be afraid to break some rules. With other teens you can get away with anything if you have a good sense of humor.