Every conversation has similar outlines: making first contact, introductions, speaking with each other, and then ending the conversation - hopefully with plans to meet again. It`s a known fact that all first dates can be awkward. The main reason is the lack of communication, that doesn`t come easy between two strangers. Conversation starters are those first words that can generate a discussion or can fall from the beginning.These conversation starters can save a date from begin a total disaster. Conversation starters with your crush , are the most nerve-raking ones. If you like someone and you need to start talking, then this is a great challenge. A tip is to relax yourself and be confident. Being nervous is very easily seen through body language, tone of voice etc and so you have to act casual. In the end, you don`t have nothing to lose. Another tip to make things go smoothly is giving a compliment. This can be helpful, you can say : “ you look fantastic “ or you can make a compliment regarding the clothes or the car.

Another tip is not to talk about you too much, because it can become boring for the other person. Give 2 or 3 details about you and then try to relate to your partner. Keep in mind that a conversation is a two-way process that involves 2 people and so you have to include your date also. Try to be funny but not in an obvious and disturbing way. Don`t say bad jokes or nasty ones , try to be funny about the situation and most of all try to be honest. There are many topics you can approach for your conversation starters with your crush. For example you can start by saying something like :“so.. "What interesting things did you do this week-end”? or a statement like „ I have never been to this restaurant before , i heard they have also chinese food”. This way you can start a conversation about food, and you can find out what he/she likes. From this topic you can approach many other topics like places you have visited , locations, trips you have made and things you both have in common.


A helpful thing to relate to is the surrounding you are in. Starting a conversation in this way can generate other subjects. If the one you have a crush on, likes you back then they will start talking. To keep the conversation going should be best to ask open ended questions. These questions require complex answers and not a yes or no ones Always smiling and having a relaxed attitude leaves a good impression for future dates you might have. If you both click then it`s more easy to make conversation. Sometimes a look is all that’s needed to break the ice. When faced with a person you find attractive, a smile is all you need. So be yourself and be confident, the rest will follow.