Preparing for a first date can be nerve-racking. There is not only the excitement of first meeting someone, but also the problem of things to talk to someone you haven`t met before. Conversation starters  are those questions or statements that can generate a complex answer and not a simple “yes” or “no”. These conversation starters can save a date from begin a total disaster. Here are some tips on how to have a first date conversation: when you first meet , a compliment can be helpful : you can say “ you look great “ or you can compliment her on her good tastes in clothes. If you notice a necklace, then, it`s an opportunity to demonstrate that you are very attentive with details.A tip is to always let her talk the most.




You can say give some details about you but then turn to her with a question like : how about you or what do you think? In this way you show that you are interested and she feels important. Being funny on a date can earn you the success you want but be careful. Joking around in a playful harmless way it`s ok. But exaggerating and saying bad jokes can finish your date, more quickly than you think. There are many first date conversation starters that you can choose from, but the most used and efficient ones are those that come casual and relaxed like : “so.. “do you have any other torturing activities besides first dates? This can be funny and in the same way ask a good question. She will appreciate the irony.

If you ask questions about her then it`s always a good start. Say things like :what food do you like? I heard this restaurant has various special dishes. This way you can start a conversation about food, you can find out what he/she likes and from here many other topics like places you have visited , locations, trips you have made and things you both have in common. You can then say„I went on a trip a few months ago in Africa, and believe me I had more fun than ever and I learned so many things and have eaten nothing but disgusting things. Did you ever traveled? Another tip, is not to focus your discussion about one topic too long and if your talk gravitates to another subject, let it.

These first date conversation starters are useful in a situation when silence is the only sound you hear. It can save your date and save you as well from embarrassing yourself. Here are some topics you can use to start your conversation: you can talk about family, ask questions like „ so do you have any brothers and sisters? Where do you live? Or talk about hobbies and aspirations. You can see if you both have something in common. Another topic would be school, or work. If you really want to impress then stay current with all the latest news. Try reading the paper or watching tv.