First Date Conversation

Published by admin, on Oct 13 2008, in the categories: Uncategorized


Usually the first date is the worst one. Nothing is more awkward than a moment of silence when nobody knows what to say. Fortunately for this particular situation we have some useful advices that can help you score some points in your dates eyes. First date conversation is exactly what you as a boy/girl think about at home before the big date. Emotions start to add up and your getting more and more anxious to meet your date. But once you get there , the date is ruined with bad conversation, stupid questions and many silent moments. Here are some first date conversation tips : During your first date conversation, maintaining good eye contact is crucial( this shows her/him that you are both paying attention and have nothing to hide); Another key to first date conversation is being confident.You should project an air of quiet confidence at all times. If you’re insecure stay home! Other tip is to talk about what you are passionate about because it can follow other discussion topics. Making your partner laugh is also a good tip especially for boys. A woman can fall in love only for the simple fact that he makes her laugh.

In order to be confident, to make her laugh ,you have to be sure that you can keep a conversation going. Because you don`t know much about the person you are seeing , you have the opportunity to ask questions about him or her. Make sure that the questions are not too private or indiscreet. You can ask questions like : „got any brothers or sisters”?; „have you traveled somewhere?” (this is a good conversation starter because it can generate many answers and discussions on the topic). Another question is the old and efficient „any career plans?” or „how`s your job?”. These questions are only a few examples of what you can say. If you break the ice, a smooth conversation will follow and at the end the date will be a success.

There are also things you shouldn`t talk about on a first date.Generally speaking, one should never ask about past lovers on a first date. In fact, this should be avoided until she/he initiates the topic (if they ever do). The person might have been hurt or may still be in love with it`s ex. You also prefer to start with a clean slate, so becoming chummy with her/him and being supportive about past mistakes may not be the greatest strategy on the first date. Use these topic ideas as a general guide. Be sure to ask your partner lots of questions, but the key is to listen to his answers and form new questions around those. And remember: Don't be nervous. The first date conversation can be scary but if u see the first-date experience for what it is: a good time with some good company, and that's all., you'll be able to relax and have fun.
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