Conversation

It`s a known fact that guys are more reserved when it comes to talking with their girlfriend. Communication is not their strong point, they usually don`t talk intimate things or about touching stuff. Men want to be seen as real men that are strong, powerful and insensitive. Well, this is an image women don`t fall for anymore. Nowadays women search for the man that thinks just like them, wants to talk about the problems and fix them etc. We can see the clear differences between guys and girls even from little kids. Girls organize tea parties, play with dolls and boys usually engage in computer games where they dn`t need to talk, sports and other activities that don`t require talking.

At first dates or dates in general, guys prepare very much in order to be as relaxed and as joyful as they are. They can lose sometimes their thoughts and not know what to say. If this happens or if there are awkward silent moments when you are together, you could ask your boyfriend some good questions to make him relax a little bit. Here is a list of good questions to ask a guy : what`s your family like? Do you have brothers or sisters? What`s like to live in a big home? Whats the best childhood memory you have? What do you want to do in the future? Where do you want to travel? Have you even been outside the country? Do you like going to the mountains? What do you think about relationships? What do you think about cheating? What`s the worst lie you ever told?

Asking good questions is a very easy way to know each other better. You can discover you have many things in common, you can see if he is a good boy or not, if he tends to brag or not etc. If the two of you feel more comfortable together you can ask questions like : how does your ex girlfriend look like? What do you like about me? What would you want to change about me? Or about you? have you ever had casual sex and then never talk again? What kind of music you prefer? What`s your favorite movie? What do you like to eat? If you had to rank how attractive you are what number would you pick? What`s your worst dating experience? Can you describe us in a word? Tell me about your most embarrassing moment ever.

In the end, asking questions is a good thing. This way you show that you are interested, that you wanna know so many things and that you are not afraid to ask questions. A guy could be quite scared or overwhelmed. Asking questions is an art, you have to control the tone of your voice , you have to know how to ask in order to get the answer you want.