First dates are always the most awkward ones and they can be stressful. It`s a known fact that people tend to change their attitudes on first dates. But nobody knows really how to act or what to say on a first date. The problem of how to keep a conversation going on a first date, with a complete stranger is solvable with only a few tips. Here are some useful advices: first of all you have to leave home with self confidence because you have nothing to loose besides maybe time or a really great partner. The first moment is always the most important one. You have to be polite, smiling is a must and eye contact is imperative to create a good impression. You can start a conversation by asking things like “ so what do you do? Do you work or go to school? From this moment on the conversation can go smoothly because the ice has been broken. Keeping a conversation going on a first date, is up to the boy.

A tip to make a good conversation is to always let the girl talk more than you. Ask her questions but not too private ones. Casual questions that are mostly related to usual things like : “ what do you like to eat? This restaurant has a great menu” or have you ever been here? And from this question you can ask more and you can generate a really interesting discussion. By simple questions you can find out many things about your date. Talking too much can become boring for the other person. Give 2 or 3 details about you and then try to relate to your partner. Keep in mind that a conversation involves 2 people and so you have to include your date also. Try to be funny but not in an obvious and disturbing way. Don`t say bad jokes or nasty ones , try to be funny about the situation and most of all try to be honest.

A great tip is to compliment her in the beginning. A compliment is always welcome and if you really try you can give her a compliment about her shoes or her hair or the beautiful necklace that she has on. It can make her feel comfortable to open up and talk. You can say something like : ohh that`s a beautiful necklace, what`s the story behind it? ( if it has a weird shape or if it`s unusual). You can also start a great conversation with questions like “ what do you like to do? Do you have any hobbies? I like swimming maybe i`ll teach you some day” and by using this you can also set another date.

With open ended questions, meaning questions that don`t have a simple answer like yes or no, you can keep a conversation going on a first date. The important thing is to inspire confidence and modesty . if she really likes you then these tips will definitely help you consolidate a future relationship!