How to Keep a Conversation With a Girl

Published by admin, on Jan 19 2009, in the categories: Uncategorized


It`s a fact that  first dates, or first meeting a girl can be awkward. You get nervous and excited, make a plan in your head , thinking how things will go. But once you are there, words just don`t want to come out. Learning how to start a conversation can be very helpful in any occasion because it you can break the ice when no one is able to. But after starting a conversation, comes the hardest part : how to keep a conversation with a girl . Keeping a conversation can be very difficult because you have to find the right topic that interests you both and on which you have many thing to say.

The important thing first is to always ask open ended questions. Meaning questions that have a complex answer and not a yes or no, one. These kind of questions keep a conversation going and what you have to do is to ask some other questions related to the topic and to what she`s saying. If you pay attention and listen with interest to what she has to say, you will surely score some points. Here are some tips on how to keep a conversation with a girl: you can ask her „what if „ questions. For example : if you were to spend one year on a deserted island, who would you take with you? if you become a millionaire in one day what would you do? Or if your friend suffered from a lethal disease, and asked you to kill him would you do it? These are questions that make you think and from your partner`s answers you can tell what kind of person is she. 

You can also keep a conversation with a girl by talking about her ambitions and goals. You can ask her about her dreams and has she done until the moment you are speaking. A good question to ask is : where do you see yourself 10 years from now?. Hobbies can also be a great topic for a really nice conversation. maybe you have something in common like jogging and you can do it together. Family is the most important subject that can keep a conversation going. You can ask her about sisters, brothers, and so on. Pets are a bonding topic because girls love puppies and if you have a dog or a cat it can really assure you the next date.

Finally , girls are very passionate about fashion and gossip so if you really want her to like you , you must speak in her language. Meaning, try to learn about fashion and clothes before meeting her. The latest news are always a great topic, especially if they are about celebrities. If you get a bit of celeb knowledge, then you are sure to capture her total attention.
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