Let’s face it guys do not talk on their own. Guys develop their childhood friends through activities. They play video games for four hours, say three words and then as the friend is leaving they would say “it was great hanging out with you”.Girls on the other hand develop their childhood relationships through communication games such as house, school,and tea parties. All of these activities are focused around you talking. So really the first date with a girl is the first time when most of the guys, have to carry on a conversation to develop a relationship. So, girls have to be patient because they are more inferior at this skill. A guy is like a child. They mostly joke. Like to play games and all their conversations are resumed to casual and day to day talk. If you want to know something about a guy you have to start asking questions because otherwise you will be left in the dark.

Here are some questions to ask a guy to get your conversation started.If you could only achieve one thing in life what would it be? What shows do you watch? What inspires you? What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done? What sports did you or do you play? Where is the best place you have ever traveled?If you could have one superpower, what would it be? What's the worst lie you ever told?

So we have established that guys don`t talk about their feelings or about themselves unless they tend to brag. As a girl you have to always try to put tricky questions to find out what kind of guy is he. It would be much better if he could only say what`s on his mind. Guys don`t even say what upsets them. They leave and stay grumpy all day long and never say a word. In a relationship , talking to your boyfriend can be the most upsetting thing to do. You can lose your patience and he will still not tell you. They do actually have some great moments, when they compliment you and when they finally talk about their feelings, but this moments are very rare and in the rest of the time you have to figure out o your own.

Here are some questions to ask a guy when things get a little bit more serious : how long was your longest relationship? What do you se when you look at me? Do you miss me during the day? Can you characterize yourself in a word ? can you do the same with me? If you had to rank how attractive you are from on a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rank?. This last question can give you an idea about his modesty, because you don`t want a cocky guy besides you. There are many questions to ask a guy, but the most important thing is to find the best moment to ask them , so you are sure that he will give you the most sincere answer.