Talking to someone is probably the best way to make friends and start relationships. When you don`t know somebody, starting a conversation is awkward but it can be done. What other way to meet new people than start talking to them. Conversation starters help you have some idea about what to say. You can start by introducing yourself and then you can give a compliment. If you are confident then it`s not such a big deal. People like a person who is happy and joyful and it`s a good idea to smile and be kind. Here are some examples of conversation starters : if you are in a library then you can ask a question about a book. If you are in a restaurant then asking about the menu or about food can also start a really interesting conversation.

At parties or in clubs people are more relaxed and willing to talk to each other. Here you can start by saying something funny or ask for an opinion . A more simple way is to smile and keep eye contact. You would be surprised , but it really works. A direct approach is good for people who are sure of themselves. All these techniques to start a conversation can work only if you are confident and relaxed. Nervousness can be seen a mile away and when starting a conversation you have to make the other person open up and feel comfortable.

Asking questions when starting a conversation helps you to keep the conversation going. It would help to ask open ended question, meaning questions that are more complex and so need a complex answer not a yes or no one. Don`t ask too many questions though, because the other person will end up feeling interviewed. The topics you can approach are endless. Usually they are common, like weather, work, hobbies, movies, music etc. Asking questions related to these topics allows you to get to know someone better. A tip to have a good conversation is to listen more. Say something about you, a few details, and then let the other person talk. It shows that you are interested and it`s a plus.

In general funny and cheerful people attract the most. So starting with a funny remark can make you look good. But don`t exaggerate, you don`t want to be the party clown. You can ask questions that make people think , especially in a crowd. For example : if you won a million dollar prize what would you do? Or if you had only a few days to live, what would you do? . The attention will be on you and in this way you can talk with any of the people in that room.

In conclusion, people like talking about everything. Finding a topic is the least of your problems. Conversation starters and questions are all you need to have a conversation. The rest it`s up to you.