LDR means Long Distance Relationship. It`s theoretically an intimate relationship but is not consumed physically. LDR is probably the most challenging relationship. Some couples can`t get along staying together all the time, what if they would be apart for a longer time. In long distance relationships the worst thought both partners have is cheating. Who cheats? Well, a man is probably more entitled to cheat because if a man cheats, is not love, if a woman cheats she doesn't love anymore. Jealousy is a home breaker, jealousy is like a disease, if you can`t control it, then it will most probably ruin everything.
There are many
things to talk about in a LDR. Being apart for such a long time, changes a little the situation. But some couples can actually manage this situation. For example couples that are at distance can talk about what they did that day, that week, what new occurred, they can talk about their feelings, they can share secrets, they can make sex over the phone etc. Many couples have phone sex, and this brings them closer together. As nasty as it might seem, is not! A relationship at distance can`t function as good as one that develops in normal conditions. Talking on the phone can have it`s bad sides, everything can be misunderstood, the voice can seem different, arguments can start from anything.
An LDR can function through constant talking on the phone, talking on the internet , sending messages, emails etc. Nothing compares with the feeling of having someone in your arms but if the situation can`t be changed, people try to do the best they can out of what they have. Love conquers all, love makes the world go around, or maybe it`s the money but we like to think that money are less important. Other
things to talk about in a LDR are for example the lates news, politics, movies, music, dreams, travels, friends, happenings, food, health, children, family, relationships, future plans, wishes etc. In some way being apart from each other, and only meeting once at two weeks can be a good thing because the passion will never fade away, you will never get bored and you will always miss the other person.
LDR`s usually end up with one of the partners making a compromise. In relationships where love exists, compromises and sacrifices are necessary. In this situation one moves where the other one is. In the end, nothing matters more than being with the one you love. Another situation is having your boyfriend away in a voyage or away in the military. Being apart fro six or even more months can change totally a person, and there are many cases when the relationship didn't work when the man got back. LDR, is difficult, it`s a risk if we think better, but everybody prefers to try than to quit before ever starting something.